Leo, let's discuss hospitality in Ethiopia and Japan. I've heard Ethiopians are incredibly welcoming. Is this accurate?
Ethiopian hospitality is genuine and almost a cultural obligation, but with nuances.
What nuances? Will I be offered injera constantly?
Possibly! The concept of "gäshärä," treating guests royally, is key. Expect coffee ceremonies and genuine curiosity.
Coffee ceremonies sound wonderful! But what about the language barrier?
English isn't as widely spoken as in Japan. A smile and a few Amharic phrases will help.
I'll practice "Selam." So, Ethiopia: warm welcomes, strong coffee, and maybe some charades. What about Japan?
Japan is different. Politeness is paramount. Expect bows, respectful language, and "omotenashi"—selfless hospitality.
Omotenashi sounds formal. Is it genuine, or just a social script?
Both! The social script is strong, but genuine warmth often underlies it. Don't expect the boisterousness of, say, Brazil.
No backslapping, noted. Is the welcome to foreigners genuine, or just polite?
Japan has historically been insular. While becoming more international, there's still a sense of "us" and "them." You might encounter staring, or reluctance to speak English, even if they know it. It's more curiosity than malice.
Staring? Should I expect an impossible standard of courtesy, but not assume instant friendship?
Exactly. It's a masterclass in manners, not necessarily a measure of affection.
Makes sense. What about smaller towns and rural areas?
In Ethiopia, rural areas might be even more welcoming. You'll be a novelty. Expect lots of questions. Rural Japan can be trickier; less exposure to foreigners, and lower English proficiency. Respect for traditions is crucial.
Respect and bridging the gap are key. Ethiopia or Japan for the most welcoming experience?
It depends on your preference. Unreserved warmth? Ethiopia. Impeccable manners and a fascinating culture? Japan.
I might need to visit both! Thank you, Leo.